DC Wedding Planning - When To Send Invitations

If you are planning a DC wedding there is a pretty good chance that you have a question or two. While our wedding day role as a DJ is to pack Washington DC dance floors, we take our self-appointed role as and wedding planning resource pretty seriously.

For us, it is all about helping couples get their best day ever!

That has led us to tackle the top 50 wedding questions couples have when planning their Washington DC wedding. Today we tackle the question of timing. Specifically, when should you send your DC Wedding Invitations.

When should we send out the invitations?

The best time to send out your invitations to your DC Wedding is 6-8 weeks before the wedding date. This allows enough time for planning and sending back the RSVP card in time. If it's a destination wedding, give guests more time and send them out three months ahead of time.

Most couples also send out save-the-date cards. They go out at six to eight months.

Where do you put the return address on your DC Wedding Invitations?

The return address usually goes on the back flap of the envelope. Also, the return address used should be that of the person(s) whom you've designated to receive response cards, be it your parents or you. Traditionally, whoever is hosting the wedding handles response cards.

Don't forget that the RSVP envelope should also be printed with this address and should include postage.

When should we make the deadline for RSVPs?

Make your RSVP date two to three weeks before your wedding date to allow enough time for you to get a final headcount to the caterer (one week before) and to finalize your seating chart.

If some guests still haven't responded by your deadline, give them a quick call and ask for their RSVP’s (still via mail) so you have all their information.

Where do we include information about our wedding website?

Your wedding website should be included on your save-the-date. If you'd like you can include the web address in the formal invitations with an insert; a small card that informs guests they can find more details online.

Can we include our registry info on our DC Wedding Invitations or Save-the-Dates?

In a word, no.

Including registry info on the wedding invitations or save-the-dates is considered impolite because it can come off as though you're asking for gifts. Put your registry info directly on your wedding website.

You can also tell your wedding party, parents, and close friends where you're registered, and let them fill guests in.

When should we send invitations to our rehearsal dinner?

You shouldn’t send rehearsal dinner invites in your DC Wedding Invitations. Instead, a week or two after you have sent your wedding invitations. That will allow enough time for the invited guests to adjust their travel time if needed. Even though the guestlist for your rehearsal dinner is often the same as your wedding guest list, the invitations should be sent separately.

Your DC Wedding day is going to be an amazing event! Planning it is a large undertaking and that can be stressful if you are uncertain what to do. I hope that you have enjoyed this article and will check out our other blog posts.

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